sex and guys vs. girls

It's been a subject that has been touched on before, but I don't know of any conclusion. Wait: yes I do, we all do, we just fail to look at it for what it is.

I wanted to write a huge analysis on this but I just can't. I don't have the motivation, the support, the time, the mood, or the knowledge other than what I see myself.

I hate how guys have the ability to band together and form bonds while girls are continuously competing and cutting each other down.

No really, think about it.

If guys had to compete for some girl's attention, they'd more than gladly pass her around so everyone gets a turn. They'd applaud "getting some". Then they'd think nothing of it because she was probably a "dirty slut" anyways. The girl always loses.

If girls had to compete for some guy's attention (which it seems many always are), they'll stop at nothing to win. Some will swear they aren't a slut like the other girls while others will proudly profess their love for anal sex and the fact that they'll gladly do things the other girls won't. Feelings get hurt, cliche as it sounds, and girls just get embittered towards one another. The guy always wins.

I just...this is indescribable and infuriating.

I can't even begin to try to articulate my thoughts because it makes me want to strangle every single owner of a penis who encourages this behavior (which is most of them, inadvertently or not) and to have a firm talking-to (more like yelling and pulling my hair out) with every single girl who feels guys are a much higher priority than another human being's feelings.

I don't understand how they can not see things like that. Do they WANT to be mistreated and cut down like they're nothing? Does anybody truly want that? I shake my head in disbelief, if any claim to. Because they don't, why do they do these kinds of things anyway?

Why don't people just understand that there are 6 BILLION people in the world, and that ONE GUY who treats girls like shit is worth NOTHING and can easily be looked over in light of the immense amount of other guys!?

Disclaimer: I wrote this a very long time ago, and some things here aren't how I usually am. For example, I don't want to strangle every owner of a penis at all, and I don't want to yell at any girl. In the heat of a moment of sudden frustration, this came out. I hope the point still came through.

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This is too true. I

This is too true. I actually had to end a friendship with my best friend when we were 16 because she would try to best me with every guy I liked. (For example, she and I were hanging out with a bunch of people and Guy That Liked Me, of which the feelings were mutual, and she grabbed his butt.) She did this every single time in some form, and would then blame my hurt feelings as my own inadequacies.

Another ex-best friend scorned the new friends I was making in high school, to the point of calling me hideous things for hanging out with them, when she didn't even know them.

Our friendships as little girls are so androgynous, and so unstoppable--what the heck happens?

Thats horrible for girls to

Thats horrible for girls to do to the guys you like, if they couldn't be happy for you to like someone or ok with the people your hanging out with you shouldn't be with them. Unless they were bad to be around but if they were normal guys thats fine. Even if they watch hentai porn xxx it doesnt make them bad