So sorry to hear that you're facing this (though it sounds like you're doing a heck of a job). Victim-blaming is disgusting and ridiculous, and it stinks that you are being subjected to it.

Are you planning to move away again soon? In my own experience, living a healthy life in my hometown was impossible for a number of reasons, and getting out was essential.

Whatever you decide, hang in there, and know that our support is with you. Keep taking care of yourself.